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What do I do if I feel sad?
Depression Explained
Sadness can be a difficult emotion to deal with. It can be the result of loss, helplessness, or disappointment, among many other things. Sadness is one of the most common and natural human emotions, however sometimes it is possible for sadness to deepen, and this may be a sign that you are suffering from a form of depression. If you feel as though you are increasingly sad, and feel like your sadness is difficult to explain, this information on depression may help.
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What is depression?
It is normal to experience feelings of sadness and despair in response to life events such as loss, major life changes, stress, or disappointment. In most cases, the sad feelings resolve as you come to terms with the changes in your life. In situations such as loss, these feelings may persist for months and return at significant times, such as birthdays and anniversaries related to the lost loved one. However, if you have times when you can enjoy things, this sadness is not a sign of depression.
Depression is a disorder that is characterised by excessive sadness, loss of interest in enjoyable things, and low motivation.
Depression is common. One in three people will experience an episode of major depression at some stage in their lives. While most cases of depression are mild, about one in ten people will have a moderate or severe episode.
What are the signs of depression?
Physical Symptoms
- Loss of appetite with excessive change in weight.
- Loss of interest in sex.
- Loss of energy, even when not physically active.
- Loss of sleep despite feeling exhausted, or
- Sleeping too much or more than usual.
- Slowed activity and speech.
Psychological Symptoms
- Feeling miserable for weeks on end.
- Loss of interest or pleasure in usual activities.
- Slowed or inefficient thinking with poor concentration.
- Difficulties making decisions or solving problems.
- Recurring guilt and self-critical thoughts.
- Thoughts of self-harm or being better off dead.
Any of these features may be warning signs of depression. You need to be experiencing at least five of these symptoms for at least two weeks to be considered as having a depressive disorder. Remember, only a qualified mental health professional can diagnose depression following a thorough assessment of your personal situation and circumstances. If you’re concerned about the way you’ve been feeling, please don’t delay speaking with your regular healthcare provider. You can also check out our anonymous online test and see if one of our online programs could help.
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What causes depression?
No one knows exactly what causes depression. Genetic factors are important in many cases of depression, where depression seems to run in families (as do other mood disorders), and about 30% of the vulnerability for depression is due to genetic influences.
Stressful life events also play a part in depression. Ongoing conflicts with others can take their toll on our wellbeing, as can other social and environmental stressors such as financial difficulties, retirement, unemployment, childbirth, loneliness, or loss of someone or something important. In vulnerable people, these stressful life events may be enough to cause or worsen depression.
Personality style is another important factor. When people are depressed, they usually have a very negative view of themselves and the world. They do not appreciate good things, and bad things seem overwhelming. Some people have a tendency to view themselves and the world this way even when they are not depressed. In other words, they may have a depressive personality style.
Other possible causes of depression that should not be overlooked is physical illness or medications. Glandular fever, influenza, hepatitis, thyroid hormones, anaemia, diabetes, birth control pills, alcohol and substances of abuse, or certain medications such as those for heart or blood pressure conditions, may all cause symptoms of depression.
How can I deal with depression?
There are a range of ways to deal with depression, and often they are best used in conjunction with each other. The top medical options are Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), antidepressant medication, and in some severe cases, Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT).
Psychoeducation is also important when learning to manage your depression.
Take a look below to find out more about each option:
What is CBT?
How can Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) help with depression?
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy or CBT is one of the most effective psychological treatments for depression. CBT uses cognitive and behavioural strategies to help target the thoughts, feelings and behaviours associated with depression. All of our online programs use CBT strategies.
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Cognitive strategies to help with depression
Cognitive Strategies
People who are depressed generally have a negative thinking style. They often think of themselves as worthless and that the world is bad or unfair, and they have little hope that their lives will improve in the future.
When something bad happens, people with depression often blame themselves, but when good things happen, they tell themselves they are just lucky. They are also less likely to recognise and appreciate positive events when they happen, and instead are more tuned into the bad things in their lives and brood over those events.
The cognitive strategies in CBT can help people identify and correct this biased way of thinking. These strategies identify and challenge sometimes hidden assumptions and beliefs, and can reframe the way they think about life.
When people with depression are able to reframe their thoughts, they are able to recover from failures more effectively and recognise and take credit for the good things in their lives. Having these skills has been shown to reduce relapse and a recurrence of depression.
Behavioural Strategies
A key feature of depression is low activity. People with depression do less than they normally would, and feel worse because of this. Behavioural strategies for depression aim to identify and change behaviours such as low activity that may worsen depression.
One of the advantages of this strategy is that once acquired, these new behaviours can be applied throughout life, and help to prevent relapse. Behavioural strategies for depression include:
- Setting goals for daily activity by making a list of the activities you are going to engage in at different times during the day. Try to stick to this plan as closely as possible.
- Increasing the amount of time spent on activities by engaging in the activities you enjoy.
- Avoiding making comparisons between the way you are behaving or feeling while depressed with the way you used to behave or feel before becoming depressed.
- Rewarding yourself for your efforts and asking others around you to encourage and praise you for each small step you take.
- Breaking down any difficult daily activities into small, easy steps and doing each slowly.
How can I cope with the individual symptoms of depression?
The symptoms of depression can be addressed to help you feel better. Here are some ways to deal with some individual symptoms:
Interested in learning more?
Depression Program
Check out our practical, self-paced online program that teaches step-by-step strategies for tackling symptoms of depression.
